stri76761. Who comes to the strip club?
The audience is diverse. I won’t say that it was all single men who came to the club. Businessmen were in a hurry to relax after the work week. Young men came in the company of their friends to chat with beautiful half-naked girls, have a cocktail with them, and feel “macho. Married couples were trying to diversify their sex lives in this way. Shady characters with dubious reputations wanted to gawk and touch a live body. There were romantics, too, who entered the club by chance in search of love.
2. Why do people come to a strip club?
It’s not just about forbidden desires, which here many people can satisfy for a certain amount of money. But rather a pleasant atmosphere: no one imposes anything on anyone, there is a moment of removal of inhibitions, there is art for the love of art and money.
I wouldn’t say that the club has an atmosphere of debauchery, but rather of light and non-committal flirting. There is no sex as such, there is sexual behavior. The girls dance, undress, then walk around the hall topless and in turn come to each table and offer the guests a “private dance”. There are two types of private dances: separately in a special private room or directly in the common room. The actual private dance: a girl climbs on your lap and dance for you for about five minutes, she may gently stroke you and whisper something in your ear. Touching the girl (despite the fact that she is topless) is undesirable. Tips are welcome, they do get shoved in the stripper’s thong.
3. Striptease as art
If you consider striptease as art, you stop noticing that the girls are naked. In general, the nudity of men and women performing at the pole, somehow quickly you get used to it, and it ceases to be something out of the ordinary. It is enough to sit in a club for a couple of hours to understand that striptease is not just a way to go out and undress in public. There are many important factors: a beautiful figure, posture, the ability to beautifully demonstrate himself, plastique, acrobatics, beautiful clothes (each different way out), hair, makeup, walking, dancing and climbing the pole in shoes with a 12-inch heel, the lack of fear, shyness and complexes.
In striptease, as in any profession, there are a number of advantages and disadvantages. On the one hand – it is a way to make a lot of money quickly, on the other – it is a risk: ruined reputation, obtrusive customers, work on the pole at a height of 5-6 meters without insurance, the pole is slippery, you can easily fall and break your neck or hurt your back. And then the work eventually ends, dancing only young and beautiful girls. I assume that all candidates are very strict selection.
4. How do strippers look like in real life?
I tried to imagine what stripper girls look like in ordinary life, and I got two types: glamorous and ordinary. If you look at the appearance, the lingerie, the facial expressions and the stripper’s behavior, and then try to dress her, you will see either a glamorous dame choosing high-end cosmetics and trying on a branded pair of shoes in a store, or you get an ordinary modest pretty girl who can easily disappear into the crowd and you will never think about her that she can work as a stripper.
5. Why order a private dance?
Many men are turned on by a lap dance, they want to feel desirable, even if they pay money for it. Some secretly want to touch the girls, and not only that… Some are trying to strike up a conversation with a stripper, to attract and charm her. Married couples want to add pepper to a relationship. Someone wants to feel like a VIP, because the girl at this moment dances only for him. If you and your spouse are quite happy and do not need the artificial rekindling of passions, then, perhaps, you go to a strip club and do not need, except perhaps out of curiosity. In any case, you should take everything that happens in a strip club as a well staged show.